Spring-Cleaning Relationships

By Kevin Fortune

Spring is in the air and mating season is beginning. Of course for humans, we’ve not taken a break at all, it just means it’s getting more comfortable for these activities outside. For those of you who are in a relationship it’s as good a time as any to do some spring-cleaning. The intentions you may have seeded last winter consciously or unconsciously, are now beginning to take root. The windows of your mind are thrown open to receive more light and air and you can see where things and thoughts have piled up in the corners. In your relationship this can translate to habits you may have fallen into with each other. While the country seeks to right itself economically, and we are all affected by it, thoughts of lack, anxiety and survival may creep into your vibration with each other. It is so important to pause, identify, and sweep out these automatic habitual thoughts and actions. They tend to form a fog of unconsciousness between you.

Make sure that you make time to sit and gaze into each other’s eyes, and let go of the world for a while. It can be your “wrinkle in time.” Take a few slow deep breaths together. Be deliberate about finding things to appreciate about each other and express them. Make time for nonsense and celebration. Be with each other in a way that is not about anything else but your connection. The more you can bring joy into this, the more you will realize your connection with All. There is now in this country a renewed sense of service. Volunteering is empowering. So give something to your partner as well that has no “deal” associated with it; no need for payback or even acknowledgement. It can be as simple as a loving smile.

One of the benefits of being in service to others is what it does for you. You are in a vibration that is loving-kindness and you are as deserving of that as anyone. In fact, it’s not even about deserving; it is your birthright and essence on this plane of existence.

If you are not currently in a relationship but would like to be, now is the perfect time to re-invent yourself. Have you experienced being in a relationship that started out pretty well and within a few months or a year it unfortunately turned out to be way too much like your previous relationship? And now you’re afraid of doing it again? “Joan” was in just such a state when she came to me. It was a mixture of despair, desperation, and hope that led her to make that call. Her determination to change and her willingness to surrender her story transformed her life. She is now what I would call a Light Worker. So much joy she brings into any room she enters!

You can shift the pattern of attraction through conscious intent coupled with breathing and touch and movement. Sexual energy can be inhibited by grief, shame, and fear. You can “pull the plug” on those inhibitory patterns and create a new pathway in the brain and the body and have as much fun as possible in the process. I truly love holding a safe space for my clients to expand into the pleasure and grace that welcomes more love and inspiration into their lives. When Spirit, mind, and body all come into harmony and you focus your desire on having a hot, loving, and fulfilling relationship the Universe will joyfully bring it to you!