Spirituality Guides Sexual Healing

In my sexual healing practice, I do not work alone. I work with an awareness that our spirit guides and helpers work with us. I believe that Spirit and sexuality are not separate, and that sexual energy can be used to facilitate the process of awakening. Sexual energy and orgasmic energy are the purest gifts we are given on the physical plane. They are a direct manifestation of Spirit.

I practice the loving law of allowance for all people and things to grow in their own time, their own space, and in their own way. No one heals anyone else. Our healing and transformation is inside of us. A true teacher only reflects and encourages your true nature, your own light. I encourage your genius for self-healing, helping you to become aware that there is nothing to fix, that this moment is enough and nothing happens next.

The most profound element of all healing is touching pain and grief with love. Touching with need would be part of the abuse and would fuel mistrust and contraction.

This work is for those who want to wake up from the trance of the sex-negative beliefs and limiting conditions we've accepted in this society. Those who have awakened have discovered an abundance and freedom they didn't know existed. Given the limiting conditions most of us have experienced, it is understandable that women especially might be suspicious of an ad by a man to offer to work with women. "Why is he doing this? What does he really want?" This is a spiritual practice for me. Being present and available for the healing energy from the spirit world to flow through me is enough. I do not need anything from my clients. I don't even need for you to be healed or to grow. That is your path to walk. But I will walk with you as a friend and collaborateur.

The healing that happens through this work is not about me or my practice.

I see myself as a spiritual midwife, helping you to develop healthy boundaries, to gain a sense of safety and trust, and to expand into joy.

There is a way to create a new path for yourself; whether you are a sexual abuse survivor, or you simply want to expand and deepen the sexuality you already enjoy. And a natural healthy sexual enjoyment is your birthright.

© 2001 Kevin Fortune

Reprinted from Open Exchange Magazine